Personal Dating Romance Coach: 3 Ways to Meet Your Romantic Soul Mate

Many women, and for that matter, many men, are searching for their soul mate. When they approach me to be their Romance Coach to help them get married, they want to meet Their Soul Mate.

The first thing I recommend my clients consider in this QUEST for ROMANTIC LOVE is to understand there is more than one person out there who would mesh well with you romantically.

Mind blowing concept, isn’t it?

Many, many people believe in the idea of “The One.” They have an image of an Ideal, a PERFECT person, instead of a Real Person who is the Best Mate for THEM. When they do this, immediately they massively limit themselves from 1. getting more dates, 2. building their relationship communication skill set, and 3. recognizing genuine LOVE when it crosses their path.

Next, you must TAKE ACTION.

Yes, we are to be feminine ladies, and men ask US out. However, ladies, we MUST TAKE ACTION. Otherwise, it’s a fantasy.

1. LOOK YOUR BEST! (OK, I’ll have more on this in upcoming articles and image consulting services as part of my individual romance coaching packages.)

2. GET OUT THERE! I will have this as a regular feature in my weekly newsletter, so you do want to sign up to receive that. To give you some ideas for now for more places to MEET MEN.

Attend Business and Technology Networking events. Trust me. You would not BELIEVE how many more men there always are at BUSINESS events. I attend these at least weekly if not more than 1 a week. Mix it up.

Go out to dinner with your girlfriends. I love to gaggle with large groups of my girlfriends and to mix things up. But really, when your goal (the goal of ALL your GFs with whom you go out, yes?) is to meet men while you are socializing with Da Girlz, then go in SMALL packs of women. It’s too overwhelming for men to gaze upon a group of 17 women and pick one out. Now a group of 3… that’s so much easier for them!

Be sure to get on the mailing list of Spinsters of San Francisco if you live in the San Francisco Bay Area. They do so much good while creating a FUN social atmosphere. Enjoy!

3. FLIRT, Baby, FLIRT!

By all means, DO FLIRT!

(Indeed, I’ll have more on How to Flirt coming here at my website in the future, so do check back often for updates.)

Now ladies, we can flirt in attire and in demeanor. Are you leveraging both?

Gentlemen, you too!
Happy Dating and Relationships,
April Braswell

April Braswell is an expert columnist at DatingAdvice.com and speaks to singles in Singles Groups and Divorce Living Groups as well as at Singles Dating Workshops and Singles Conferences in Orange County CA Life Coach April Braswell, LA and San Francisco. Orange County CA #1 Best Hypnotherapist in Newport Beach, Costa Mesa, Irvine based.